Um. Probably getting ourselves in to a sub/dom relationship. Which has become a regular part of our sexual escapades.
Talk to your partner about it! I can’t stress how valuable an open line of communication is in any relationship. If you want to spice things up.. talk to your partner about it!
But some more proactive tips:
- go to a sex shop and look at the toys together
- send each other dirty messages and pics at work
- tell each other your desires
Just talk. Seriously. It does wonders!